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Wednesday, October 24, 2012

What's up in October with the Fam-edit

 



We have had a very warm September and October.  I met my sister Mary and her husband Spence at the beach one day when Gina came over to stay with David.  The bright yellow Lantana bush was so cheerful.  I associate the sharp spicy smell with childhood, when we would pull off the flowers and suck the nectar out of the ends

 
The sand was pulled out off the beach by large waves the week before, but we found a spot to set up near the cliffs, sat and talked, enjoyed the  sights and sounds, and went for a swim!  The ocean temps have kept up 68-69 degrees which is like summer time.  We went in on this side of the big rock and swam out with our fins on, diving under waves and loving the fresh feel. 


The light cloud cover filtered the sun and made "sun-dogs" on either side. 

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David had a small surgery to have a port put in his chest.  It is an access for giving him IV's and medicine.  The little device is under the skin, and has a line that goes into a vein in his neck, which then goes to the heart.  That way the medication can be pumped through the body by the heart. The procedure went very smoothly, and all the staff and Doctors were so helpful.  A week and a half later his incisions are very well healed up.   This week he started on IV antibiotics and is doing alright with them.  He seems to have had a bit of a die-off reaction yesterday, as he felt awful and was very achy.  That is expected with Lyme as it gives off toxins as it is killed, but we want to try to go at a rate that he is not made too sick.   He is still having vertigo off and on, which is the hardest as it makes him dizzy, nauseous, and startle when he feels like he is falling, it also gives him  migraine headaches.  I am hoping and praying the meds will help heal, and not hurt.  We will be going to the doctor's office every Monday so they can open the port for the week, receive the new dose of IV meds, and so they can keep an eye on David's condition.  I give him the IV meds at home during the rest of the week, and have learned about flushing IV lines, drawing up meds in syringes, attaching IV bags etc.  Thankful that I have some medical background and that I am not squeamish.  David keeps an eye on how I am doing everything,and reminds me if I forget anything.  On Friday the nurse comes and closes the port, so David is free of it over the weekend, then he can shower and not have a needle and tube sticking out.  The nurses come on Sat. and Sunday and give him medicine by injection.  We are praying about, and researching a treatment center in Reno, NV. that have very good results in healing Lyme patients.  It would involve David and I living there for about 7 weeks.  It would also cost a boatload of money so figuring out if we can do that.  They use several natural methods of exposing the Lyme to the bodies immune system (as it is very stealthy),
and killing it off in a more harmless manner.  They also have methods for helping the body detox and recover.


 

  We were all very happy to have Daniel and Heidi come down for a couple days. Dan was down taking an IT test for a local company in the hopes of getting a job locally.  David hung out in the living room, so Heidi and Dan would stay at our house in his room.  He enjoys being with them so much.  He was such a gentleman, even when so ill.  He was having vertigo, so we pushed the futon against the couch to give him more space. 



We were all excited to see Heidi's tummy growing with the new baby, and I even got to feel him kick! She is due Christmas day.

edit...I forgot these lunch pics!



Dan and Heidi took me out to lunch!  It was great to relax and visit with one another.  David was the instigator...he told Daniel that I need to get out. 







A mutual friend, Kathrine, came to visit, riding the bus over two hours from college.  Daniel became nostalgic and pulled out several photo albums from childhood.  It was fun to listen, as he and David shared memories, and Daniel thanked us for the magical childhood.  




 

We had a couple tea parties.  David eventually retreated to the bedroom when he got over tired, and it was too noisy in the Living room for him.  I had to take a picture of the whole gang all gathered in the bedroom watching a show together. 



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Today is cloudy and cool...I am wearing a bright red sweater, and it feels so nice.  Bob is off shopping for a new refrigerator as our hasn't been getting cold enough lately, and sounds like a small airplane engine when it starts up.   I was getting excited about some of the newer refrigerators, then realized that the door into the kitchen is so small we probably can't fit some of the models that looked fun.  I told Bob I am fine with basic, just as long as it gets things COLD!

We skyped with our lovies in Colorado this morning.  So fun to see baby Brason plumping up and looking so content. 



This face always makes me smile...or laugh...



Nice to see they have been out enjoying the splendor of Fall in Colorado, as they are just a couple months from visiting here before med-school in St. Kitts.




See you next time!




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Your grandbabies are too cute.  :)


I am still keeping David and this terrible battle with Lyme in my prayers.  It sounds like he is doing well in every other way....just need to get the body healthy again! 


Jenny, the ocean swimming sounds delightful.  What a blessing to be by the sea, the warm sea!  So beautiful.  I love all your pictures of the beach.


Love you!

Posted 10/20/2012 7:27 PM by purpleamethyst76 - recommend - reply

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Thinking of You...
Posted 10/20/2012 7:33 PM by WildWomanOfTheWest Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - recommend - reply

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So glad you are able to take an occasional break!  And the beach sounded lovely.  Re refrigerators -- I love mine, with the freezer below, and double doors above.  Because they are only half the width, the doors fit beautifully in a space where the old fridge didn't open all the way!
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If I had the boatload of money, I'd pay for yours and David's stay in Reno so that he can get the treatment there! Maybe if alot of Xanga friends donated to the cause....  In spite of David's terrible sickness, I do love this newsy post along with the pictures of everything, especially the adorable Grandboys! Also, I had no idea that you could suck the nectar out of Lantana! Honeysuckle, yes. Now I want to go back to the Nursery and at least sniff the Lantana!   I wish I could come over there and help you.
Posted 10/21/2012 1:24 AM by Richgem - recommend - reply

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As always, I'm glad to read an update. I have STILL not spent much time on Xanga. I've spent just enough time to read a few blogs here and there, while I continue to heal from this last round of radiation.! Love and prayers coming from here to there!
Posted 10/21/2012 8:54 PM by cherylyn_p Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - recommend - reply

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David and you remain in my prayers. I sure hope he regains his strength, weight and health one day.--very tough disease.

Yes, nice to see you take a break. I love beach breaks.

The kids are adorable,and a new baby coming is wonderful.

I love looking at old photos--so many wonderful memories.

blessings,

frank
Posted 10/21/2012 9:59 PM by HUMOR_ME_NOW Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - recommend - reply

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my heart smiles with your pictures of family and nature---God's precious creations. but it aches for you. from one mom to another. your dear son. (i'm not thinking that david would be wanting to be called dear. :) but still. i have boys and they ARE dear.) praying for HIS uplifting presence. healing. wisdom. and a rich uncle. :) much love to all.
Posted 10/22/2012 11:53 AM by down_onthefarm - recommend - reply

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Praying for the love of God to abound and overflow to all of you (Romans 5:1-5).

I love that picture of everyone snuggled together in the bedroom!
Posted 10/22/2012 6:03 PM by naphtali_deer - recommend - reply

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David is such a treasure. i will keep him in my prayers throughout.
Posted 10/24/2012 1:44 AM by RighteousBruin Xanga Premium Member - recommend - reply

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What a beautiful post!
Posted 10/24/2012 6:49 AM by andreas_d Xanga Premium Member - recommend - reply

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Oh dear one! I am praying for healing in Jesus precious name, the testimony of your family's faith and precious, trusting attitude is a testimony!

I will pass this entry on to my family and we will certainly be praying for you all as you go through this trial.

You are as beautiful and youthful as ever.

Bless you and my prayers are with you,until the next update... ~Amelia
Posted 10/24/2012 11:40 AM by thats_italian - recommend - reply

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You encourage me with how you take things!! I'm so glad there is some treatment available for David!!! He's a trooper!
Your children and grandchildren are so beautiful!
Posted 10/25/2012 10:19 AM by celebratinglifeandmotherhood Xanga Premium Member - recommend - reply

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@purpleamethyst76 -  Love you too Shanda, and enjoying your beautiful Fall posts! Yes, all is well with David's soul and spirit, though tried hard with pain, he is a blessing, smiles at me and says thank you. Yes, that ocean speaks joy to me.
@WildWomanOfTheWest -  Thank you for the bouquet and thoughts Tami!
@slmret -  I try to find a break each week, and various occasions seem to come up! I liked the idea of your kind of Frig, but we decided the standard model works best in our kitchen. I see the difference, everything is so cold now!
@Richgem -  Awww, thanks Gail. We are going to try to save up and see what we can do with that clinic. In the meantime we are going with the conventional treatment and doing the IV antibiotics, so praying they help. I wish you were closer too, but thankful for our cyber plus friendship
@Godeliva Hoftijzer@facebook -  Thank you so much for your kind words, thoughts, and prayers Godeliva. David is very brave and continues well in this time of waiting for his healing. I so appreciate your encouragement. Bless you.
@cherylyn_p -  Lord bless you Cherylyn, I hope you are gaining in strength each day. Thank you for your praying.
@ANVRSADDAY -  Thank you for your prayers and continued encouragement Frank! Yes, we are believing one day David will be better!
@down_onthefarm -  LOL, he is a dear, and he doesn't mind it. I am a "honey", "sweetie" etc. kind of mom so they are used to it. My middle son called me "peanut" when he was about five since he thought we were going with food names Thank you for your continued love and prayers. Love to you too.
@naphtali_deer -  Thank you so much. God's word is such a comfort to my heart. We are all snugglers over here. Of course when they were watching TV, David was just laying on his back, but put his arm around Dan for the picture.
@RighteousBruin -  Thank you for lifting him up! Yes, he is a special young man and is growing even more mature, yet I hope this season will begin with healing for his body.
@andreas_d -  Thank you Andreas!
@thats_italian -  Thank you Amelia, we so appreciate the prayers and support from you and your family. It is so good to see your smiling face.
@celebratinglifeandmotherhood -  Thank you for your sweetness!
Posted 10/25/2012 4:00 PM by ABAHM Xanga Premium Member - recommend - reply

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that just warmed my heart when you said david is always such a gentleman.. he reminds me of my brother nate, and maybe that's why i feel a particular soft spot for him. :) when i read through all he went through w/ the surgery, iv's, etc. ugh! i know he's handling it all with a good attitude, but still.. i found myself saying, "Lord, couldn't ya just take it all away!" my dad has had a blood clot he's been dealing w/ for six weeks now, and i was talking w/ my mom yesterday about how it's so hard when something just keeps going and going and no end seems to be in sight. and i know there can be such a weariness that comes in, and even discouragement, and i just pray, dear jenny, that you feel the Lord strengthening you in those inner most parts that no one else sees but Him. and may He surround you with some "Aaron's" to help hold your arms up when you feel you can't hold them up anymore! i'm going to join cindy's prayer too for a rich uncle. ;) that sounds like a great place to take david..

and i have to add, your attitude about your fridge blessed me today. my fridge is too big for the spot in our kitchen. and i struggle at times with wanting another, wishing it didn't stick out and thinking it looks funny~ and then your simple contentment w/ just something that will keep the food cold. well, i needed that little prick of conviction today. :))

so happy for you that daniel and his wife got to visit. i know you treasure those times, and those grandbabies!!

hope you have a good tuesday there - and please tell david, reesey and i say, hello!! :))
Posted 10/30/2012 10:12 AM by Hutch5 Xanga True Member - recommend - reply

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@Hutch5 -  Lord bless you Amber for your sweet, uplifting, words of encouragement. Yes, my David AARON has been so incredibly long suffering through this ordeal. We feel like some glimmer of improvement, but as I said to the doctor today, two steps forward, one back (and sometimes two back), so continuing to hold fast to the Lord, pray a lot, and do all we can to support our boys body. The Lord seems to be leading us to some support in our local area, as I just started to go to some Lyme support meetings. Good to find out from others what has worked for them. Blessings and love to you and Reesey and all the rest.
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